How does one succeed in life?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

If there is an abandoned house with no owner, can I live in it?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Why won't my mom let me come home if I'm homeless?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What is the reasoning behind conspiracy theorists claiming that there were multiple shooters involved in the JFK assassination?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Which city should one visit between Nice and Cannes? Why?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What's the most valuable lesson you've learned in life, and how has it impacted your journey so far?

Ask yourself:

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

Could the guys here tell me how their first experience with a trans woman was? Who was the lady to you? ( I mean girlfriend, one night stand, etc.) I just had my first experience recently and I would like to know about others?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Two of my family members have recently converted to Islam and have brought shame on my family. How do I get them back into the fold of Hinduism?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Do women like men who have slept with many women?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

If there exists a “New York of Australia”, is it Sydney or Melbourne?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Why do humans sweat while stressed?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

That's it for today.

Making more friends is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):